The best part of a destination wedding is that it brings together your favorite people in a venue that provides excitement for everyone involved. If guests are traveling long hours to celebrate with you, one way to show your appreciation is to plan a memorable pre-wedding activity for the group.
“It’s good to include other organized events in your wedding weekend because a lot of people spend a lot of money to come to your wedding,” says event planner Alison Laesser-Keck. “If you’re going to ask guests to board a plane, you want them to come away from the experience feeling immersed in the local culture.” Aoife Owens of White Elephant Resorts agrees: “Scheduled activities are a great way to showcase the couple’s chosen destination.”
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Yet deciding how best to bring together disparate groups of participants can seem overwhelming. How do you choose something that will appeal to different ages, personalities, and preferences? Where is the line drawn between forced pleasure and, well, real pleasure?
“Ultimately, you want to look at what specifically makes your destination cool,” suggests Laesser-Keck. “What’s special about the area? Gravitate to it.”
Need some extra advice or inspiration? Read on for a list of 15 unique activity ideas to include in your own wedding weekend as well as answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about pre-wedding activities for guests.